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HAPPY NEW MONTH OF JUNE

Every time Jesus passes through a place testimonies abounds. May He pass through your life, your Marriage, your husband or wife, your children, leaving testimonies of His power and grace.
God will hear the smallest whisper your heart desires. He will publicly honour you and reposition you for greater things as you journey through your marital life. God will always raise helper for you in time of need and will never forsake you in Jesus name.

May the Lord be a shield and a defence for you, your Marriage, entire family and possessions to make you invisible  to evil ones in Jesus Mighty name. Amen.

Happy New Month
You are blessed.

CAN SOMEONE WHO TRULY LOVE YOU STILL LET YOU GO?

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I blocked myself from the one I truly love with all my heart and stayed out of her life for I want her to be happy and not sad or guilty any day. Back then, I used to go out of my way to love her. Now, I went out of her way and life to love her even more. When I realized that I still love her and she doesn’t have any feelings for me, I decided to LET HER GO and I started staying away from her. It has been more than five years now and I still love her, but staying away. If you love them truly and genuinely care for them and all they need is some space, away from you, for now or forever, you will stay away. You will try your best staying away to get them back, but you will be happy for them and their happiness with or without you in their life, for you love them truly. When I saw her feeling bad and guilty, I decided to stay away from her. I will continue to love her silently but don't want to be close to her until she feels the same way or she gets married to the person she will l…

WHAT WILL MAKE YOU DATE YOU EX AGAIN?

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I have made such mistake before, is seriously a terrible mistake but some times it's great if the love is still their and not for selfish interest. We dated for about 4 years, although it was Long Distance Relationship but I loved her so much and was giving her all the attention and the time she deserves from me.
When we physically met in 2017, it turned out that she's not who she claimed to be all this while during the long distance relationship. Then I broke up with her, few months into 2018, she came back begging that she has changed, I forgave her and we started making arrangements for our wedding but that was the time she actually started showing me her true character. I couldn't bear the pain any more, I have to totally separate from her.
1) To some people, they will appreciate it and will never abuse it but for someone that doesn't love you who was actually the caused of the initial break up, for you going back to that person again you are going to hurt yourse…

THE MEANING OF IQ, EQ, SQ AS REGARDS TO INTELLIGENCE.

There are three types of  intelligence.

1. Intelligent Quotient (IQ): this is what helps one to "know book", solve maths; memorize things and recall subject matters.

2. Emotional Quotient (EQ): this is what makes someone to be able to maintain peace with others; keep to time; be responsible; be honest; respect boundaries; be humble, genuine and considerate

3. Social Quotient (SQ): this is what makes people to be able to build network of friends and maintain it over a long period of time.

People that have higher EQ and SQ tend to go farther in life than those with high IQ but low EQ and SQ. Most schools capitalize in improving IQ level while EQ and SQ are played down. A man of high IQ can end up being employed by a man of high EQ and SQ even though he has an average IQ. Your EQ represents your character; your SQ represents your fame. Give in to habits that will improve these three but more especially your EQ and SQ. EQ and SQ make one manager better than the other.

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Marriage as a union between man and a woman has been a serious decision for so many Singles before they get married to their spouse.
In some cases the parents of either the guy or the girl will pose challenges in the choice their son or daughter wants to  make, by been against the man or against the lady their child wants to marry and if he truly love the lady, it will throw him into a serious challenge on who's side to stand.

Some time, it's create a big misunderstanding between the guy and his parents because he wants to marry the lady has so much loved but the parents will be giving him so many reasons not to marry her.

On the other hand, the parents may be disagreeing with him on the height of the lady but he's contented with her height with the fact that she's the quality of the lady he wants to marry.

The parents may as well be disappointed with him by saying that the lady is too slim for him to get married to that kind of person or that she is too big for him, …

THE POWER OF FORGIVENESS AND IT'S BENEFITS TO YOUR MARRIAGE.

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Forgiveness is the glue that will keep your marriage  together and alive. Without giving and receiving forgiveness, you will disconnect from one another and lose intimacy.

Forgiveness does not mean you will forget the wrong committed against you, but it simply mean you make a choice not to hold a grudge against your spouse.
You don’t forgive because you feel like, but because it’s a step toward healing an emotional wounds. Forgiveness is a conscious decision.

It may not necessarily remove the consequences or repair broken trust, and it make reconciliation possible there by bringing two hearts together again.

Because of our faith, we believe the greatest act of grace appeared when Jesus died for our sins. The sacrifice of His life on the cross made forgiveness possible, and now we are able to experience abundant life on earth and eternal life in heaven. This is the epitome of unconditional love. For us to receive God’s forgiveness and then choose not to forgive our spouse is the highe…

ARE YOU GETTING READY TO MARRY OR ALREADY MARRIED? IS IMPORTANT YOU READ THIS.

Every individuals has one weakness or the other in them but don't allow that to be in your Marriage or Relationship.
The major causes of break up in Marriage and Relationships is;
SUPERIORITY ATTITUDE:
If one person in the relationship becomes the dictator (or boss), the relationship will head toward destruction. As long as you feel superior to your partner, you won’t resolve problems together. A dictator spouse can become scornful and harsh because he or she doesn’t see the other as an equal. A healthy marriage requires you to be committed to serving one another.
Paul’s relationship advice in Ephesians 5:21 summarizes this beautifully: “Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ.” In a growing marriage there is no room for superiority, but there is always room for emotional humility (or what Tim Keller calls emotional wealth, which is fundamentally an inner joy and confidence).
To keep an attitude of superiority from becoming a block in your marriage, we encourage you to le…